Why People Sabotage Good Relationships Even When They Want Them to Work — Internal Dynamics Toolkit (TOOLKIT 04)
This Internal Dynamics Toolkit explores why people can sabotage relationships that are objectively going well, even when they genuinely want them to work. It breaks down how moralized definitions of good and bad, internal fragmentation, deservingness confusion, giving-and-extracting tension, identity misalignment, and external value interference destabilize connection.
Rather than framing sabotage as fear of intimacy or self-sabotage traits, this toolkit shows how morality replacing context creates internal conflict that makes withdrawal feel regulating. Designed in the PhenomenonLabs institutional style, it maps repeatable internal dynamics without therapeutic framing or motivational language.
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A structural breakdown of the internal dynamics that cause people to destabilize supportive relationships through moral conflict.